Title : Tips for a Successful Life Previous | Next
Success is when we feel at ease with our self, when we earn enough to sleep well at nights, when our close relationships are good and we are a positive influence on those around us. When we can deal with adversity and plan for the future. For me success is also achieving self-control, defeating procrastination and feeling motivated and passionate about my life and work.
The feelings success brings will make we walk proudly in the streets with our head up high while being happy and satisfied.
Take Responsibility - Since we have the power to choose our experience, we also need to accept responsibility for this. Perhaps not that everything that comes our way is a direct result of our own thinking (though some might say it is) but what we attract into our life is, largely, a reflection of our thinking. Much of this occurs on a subconscious level, but the subconscious takes its lead from the thinking mind, so changing our thoughts will change our world, and we are responsible for this.
Our behavior is a natural outcome of our mental images, and so we are responsible for our behavior too, and also for the behavior we tolerate in others. If we allow others to ride roughshod over us, then we have ourselves to blame.
Lack of Persistence - The only people who succeed in life are the persistent ones. Those who continue working right to the end until they get what they want even if everything was against them and even if they failed many times.
Self-confidence - If you don't have a high self-confidence then most probably you will be too shy of presenting your ideas and you may give up your dreams as soon as someone tells you that they are not possible. You may fear taking any risks and so ignore many opportunities that could have made you successful. If you want to increase your chances of being a successful person, then you must build your self-confidence. You can build it from scratch using the ultimate guide for building self-confidence.
Success related Fears - The types of fears that can affect our ability to succeed are the fear of failure and the fear of success. While they both seem to be complete opposites still they can have the same effect on us which is preventing us from trying and so leading to failure. If we want to deal with fear of success then check out this article while if we want to deal with fear of failure then check out this one.
Sound -Show good judgment and sense in life. Don’t let prejudices or emotions cloud your judgment.
Magnanimous -Be generous in life. Give of your time, money and wisdom. Share with others so they can see the true joy and adventures of life them.
Be a Good Leader - We cannot be effective in any area of life unless we have good leadership skills. Leadership is an art and each of us needs to find our own approach to it. Primarily, we need to understand how to lead ourselves, and this means having a compass, a direction which guides all our actions. This compass often takes the form of a personal mission statement, a document spelling out the values we live by.
As we lead others, whether as parents, bosses, in families or organizations of which we are a part, we need first and foremost to lead by example, making it clear what our values are and that we live by them. Any inconsistency in our professed values and our behavior will be spotted, seen through and will ruin our effectiveness. Personal complicity and double standards are the nails in the coffin of our ability to lead.
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